Hey I joke with my friends all the time, if I'm with one of my friends and I make a joke about them and they are black they know I'm joking. If I say about girls to a girl they know I'm joking. I don't know why those guys are being retarded to you. Racism happens to every group of individuals. Even if your white your made fun of. I mean heck, you can't say not one of us was never discriminated upon. I know guys are sometimes discriminated as being all about sex and stuff when that's not the case for all. You'll just have to deal with it.